Approach the audience fully ready for them.
Just connect with your audiences.
You want them to walk away with the spirit of you failed on them wanting to walk away feeling that I will never be the same again.
Work your points, techniques, your special stuff --The highest capacity your points, your techniques, your special stuff, the highest capacity, selling yourself as well as your ideas.
Every 10 people that you hear every 10 people that you speak before here's what's going on with them. Tip number one you got three people out of 10 who just want information.
They want some information. They don't want to be motivated. They don't want to laugh.
There’s another three out of that. 10 They want to laugh. Whatever you say, every opportunity they get, they're going to laugh.
Got another three, they don't want to be patient. They don't want you to heal. They just want to be motivated. They just want to be inspired.
There's another person out of that to provide information. You provide humor and you can provide inspiration and you are not going to let go.
What if no one is receiving your message?
You got to have some backup.
What I'm saying is there's no guaranteed path to get on the path that you decided to go on.
For example, perhaps you're not clicking with your audience… and they don't laugh.
Now you got to pull something else out to trigger laughter.
You got to experiment to find out what buttons you need to push in order to get to where I need to go.
This is why it's important to have an unlimited reservoir of stories.
Review your points quickly.
You also make the person who hired you look very good and that contact person will want to hire you again.
Hey, I've got a secret for you.
Many times, people remember the end of your speech much more than the beginning…
People will start off really dead real boring, but they ended their speech on a high note and really enjoyed it.
It is important to realize that people can feel you think that people when they hear you must know love because you tell them that because they feel that you love speaking take the time to work you experiment, you'll you will be an ongoing student… you'll never be satisfied with some work that you feel proud of.
Listen to your feedback.
And ask yourself what might have worked better?
What deserves to be repeated? That's your presentation. Get feedback.
Ask yourself what might have worked better, and what deserves to be repeated some stories you might take out something else you might keep them well, this is great.
You want to get some feedback; people get different things from your presentation.
Sometimes you can improve your speech by just changing the rhythm or pacing the humor out better or taking the story from the middle and putting it at the end.
Eventually, ideas will come to you and pressure will come to you eventually you will be led and guided and quotable at the appropriate time.
I'm nervous all the time. I can't sit down and relax.
Because I'm so nervous. I'm so excited.
I never ever it's so relaxed that I don't experience the nervousness.
So, I'm saying to you don't worry about fear.
I believe that I was born to speak. I believe that as much as you have chosen this.
When I opened my mouth. I was amazed because I realized that it wasn't me.
You're going to have moments when you speak, moments of inspiration-- these magical moments when the words will flow everything will be together.
And you will want to stop at different moments and say Excuse me, are you taping this?
The ideas, the quotes, the statistics, the stories, the pauses, the humor, those gripping moments that pierced the heart, it's going to happen to you.
It's going to happen for you. Believe me, it's going to happen.
If you work on yourself to be in alignment with the message that you bring will reveal it to you overcome the fear, you will experience it to do what you have to do.
See you next week
